How can you earn respect in your family and how can you know you are respected in your family
Respect is reciprocal. Always serve others and make a good , progressive and unforgetable impact in the life of others. Because geniue respect comes from what you do to others that make who you are.
Geniue respect comes from within after thought while fake or mundane respect comes from what you are getting from such person or fear of such person created in you either by power, status or bittered experience from relating with the person.
If you want to know that you are respected genuinely, your absence or responsibilities towards such people are always felt and create unhappiness or sorrow to them. I.e they won’t be able to all they have been doing or enjoying without you or your presence.