“Veekee James Is Not The Right Person To Advise Singles About Marriage”

Tosin Silverdam has responded to celebrity designer Veekee James Atere regarding her recent advice on relationships.

The fashion designer gained attention after sharing a video where she suggested that many women could find marriage if they lowered their standards.

This video went viral on social media and sparked various reactions from Nigerians, including Tosin Silverdam.

Nigerian blogger Tosin Silverdam has responded to celebrity designer Veekee James Atere regarding her recent advice on relationships.

The fashion designer gained attention after sharing a video where she suggested that many women could find marriage if they lowered their standards for a tall, attractive, and financially stable partner.

This video went viral on social media and sparked various reactions from Nigerians, including Tosin Silverdam. The popular blogger shared a video on his page discussing the issue.

Silverdam stated that Veekee James should not give marriage advice to single individuals. He pointed out that she has been married for less than two years, which makes her insights less credible for singles.

He also mentioned that he would have accepted her advice if she had been married for ten years, but even then, it doesn’t ensure she has all the answers.

In his words:

“But then again, Veekee James is not the one to be advising singles about marriage. When did she even get married? Is it even up to two years that she got married that she’s advising singles about marriage? What does she even know about marriage? She’s still fresh. You can start advising people about marriage when you’ve spent 10 years in your marriage. Even 10 years does not guarantee anything.”

The media personality also said:

“We know the story sha, all these ones she’s saying, how she met Femi and everything, she’s not the person to be advising anyone.”

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@lauretta_egboh: “But to be honest, I love Veekee James yeah, but I think she ‘subliminally’ undermines or belittles her man. It may not be a conscious act but it’s demeaning. She constantly sets low standard for her man and allows people perceive him a certain way. Coming out to tell people your man doesn’t flush toilet is appalling. As if that is not enough, you give him few notes of naira to spray in a wedding and then simultaneously hold bundles of dollars to spray in that same way. I don’t know if she does it intentionally or accidentally, but it just beats me why you not be conscious about certain utterances or actions regarding your man, especially when it’s one that might bring him to ridicule. I just feel Veekee just needs him around for her content and compensated him with gifts to be honest. Because how do you explain certain things??? I know people will come for me but if you look at things from my own perspective, you’ll understand where I’m coming from.”

@hoyindarmolarmiee: “Veekee, in case you are seeing this, Keep doing what makes you HAPPY. They will be alright.”

@Taaatibg: “She should just let her husband rest if she respects her husband. Why is she behaving like she isn’t man deserving? Did she beg to marry him?😢”

@Kaycee_blinks: “Veekee and setting herself up for drag 😩 I think she enjoys the drama sha.”

@sparkles01___: “Are you people not happy for me?? The need for excess continous public validation tho’.”

@Enehjody: “This is just a typical case of when people don’t like you, they don’t like. Everyone knows she is saying you can’t have it all in 1 man, but they chose to twist the meaning to be that her husband lacks everything on the list. Una go dey alright.”

@kitty__klinics: “She brought this on herself ☹️… sometimes give it a rest 😩.” Lovelynj3: “She talks too much.”

@Drvivianokiche: “A man should be the provider and the head of the family, if you like have billions as a woman,cover him in the home and online too, you mustn’t take credit for providing for your home online….. so sorry for the man.”